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What Turns Him on Most -- at 25, 35, 45
For men, sex means a lifetime of navigating age-specific perils, pitfalls, and performance anxieties. In our 20s, we worry about size and premature ejaculation ... in our 30s, about whether we'll ever have sex again ... in our 40s, about whether we can keep it up like we used to ... and so on. Naturally, we tend to read any problem as a cosmic reflection of some personal failing because we can't leave our egos out of anything, especially the bedroom. And no, thanks, we don't want to talk about it.

But it's your sex life, too. So how are you supposed to deal with your husband's physical changes downstairs and mental craziness upstairs? Step one is awareness. Here, experts and regular guys explain what's going on with your man at every stage and how to keep him (very) happy through the years.

His 20s	His 30s
His 40s	Spice it up

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You've gotten over the hurdle of sex with your partner, and are now comfortable doing it. You enjoy it, you know what to expect and how the basics work. Now that you're no longer paranoidly nervous about "The act" it's time to start really enjoying it! Here are some ways to have fun with each other.

Lingerie for Every Day	Lingerie Model	Writing Notes
Naughty, Naughty	Exotic Dance Instruction	Sheets and Texture
Bed of Roses	Explore Food	Try a blindfold

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This is a trust-building exercise - blindfold your partner and then gently tease him or her. Whenever doing a trust exercise it´s important to have a code word that means "stop right now", so that if at any point your partner feels uncomfortable things can be brought to a halt. Take turns with the blindfold, and have some fun!

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It´s been played up in movies, but it´s really an exercise in trust. Blindfold your partner and find an arrangement of foods you feel they will enjoy. Choose them with different textures, aromas, and flavors. Feed each one to your partner, letting him or her savor your choices.

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Buy rose petals at your local florist (some will sell only the petals--if yours won´t buy two dozen roses). Before your mate comes home for the day, cover your bed in rose petals. Dress in something sexy (or nothing at all!). Then leave a note by the door telling your partner to meet you in the bedroom (or call sweetly to him or her when they come in). You know what comes next!

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Sheets may seem like a meaningless thing, but they are after all often the baseline for your encounter. Try changing to a different style - if you normally use cotton, try silk. If you´re a silk lover, switch to cotton. The new texture against your bodies might be quite interesting!

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Since you are wearing that sexy lingerie, why not make the most of it... and really drive him crazy with some exotic dance... if this doesn't work on him, get another man. You deserve someone who appreciates you.

There are many Exotic Dance lesson books and videos on the net these days, try one out.

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Take him out to dinner, anywhere he wants. During dinner, tease him a little, so he´ll anticipate what will happen later on. Excuse yourself to go to the bathroom and take off your panties ( make sure you wear a skirt or dress ).

Back at the table slip him the panties under the tablecloth and give him a LOOK. He´s sure to get the message and you´ll enjoy watching his reaction.

Write an explicit note and put it in his lunch box, brief case or jacket pocket. Tell him what you've got lined up for him when he comes home. He'll come racing home in record time.

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Take your man to Victoria´s Secret, Frederick´s of Hollywood, Ann Summers (or your favorite lingerie shop). Some men are squeamish about going in lingerie shops. Whisper your plans to him: you´ll take him into the dressing room and model any piece of lingerie he likes. This should help him get over any shyness he may feel. For the bold ones, you might sneak in a quickie while in the dressing room!

Men: if you´re really good, you´ll buy her one of the pieces of lingerie you both liked (even better: buy it while she´s not watching and present it to her at another time)